“Simply place the head against the anal opening but don't insert, or glide the toy in a circle around the opening. External anal vibrations add completely new sensations.
“Try emptying your bowels 45 minutes to an hour before anal play,” she adds. “[But] if you aren’t feeling well or things are a little loose, you might want to hold off on the anal play.”
If you’re brand new to anal play, I strongly suggest playing with a butt plug prior penetrative anal sex with a penis or strap-on dildo. (You can do this by yourself or with a partner.)
Most fecal matter sits higher up in your rectum, but anal play can bring on the urge to poop. Pooping before play will allow you to go deeper and help you focus on the task at hand.
The grundle, taint, or otherwise known by it’s fancier name, the perineum, is the strip of skin between your testicles and your anus. Stimulating it will give you a little hint of what anal play ...
Repeat after me: Not all toys are anal-safe! When it comes to toys for anal play, the most important rule is to make sure it has a flared base so it doesn’t get lost inside you.
Now, go forth and enjoy the pleasure of anal play with the aid of these wonderful toys. Just remember: Start with a Cindy, and always use plenty of lube. Read more stories on tips and techniques ...